Alternative Services

Every now and again someone asks if I can help with something that doesn't fit neatly into regular escorting or domination. When I say yes, I add it to this page in case anyone else is looking for the same thing.

Health

• Massage (sexual or non-sexual) with a professional table (for female clients)

Personal Development

• Dating and relationship advice
  As a poly, kink-experienced person who has been dating for over a decade and has had hundreds of play partners, I've encountered a lot of complicated situations in the dating and sex world. I can't fix your problems, but I can talk you through my comparable experiences and work through potential approaches with you. Sometimes just talking about something helps.
• Escort industry advice (websites, advertising etc)
  If you're thinking about becoming an escort, it's worth getting some advice first. It's an amazingly fun job if you're in it for the right reasons, but like any job, there are risks and common early mistakes. Ask me about what works well and everything I did badly in the beginning, and save yourself from repeating it.
• Fetish tools training
  If you're new to kink and about to dip your toe in, I'd strongly recommend starting with an experienced guide. It immediately earns my respect when someone asks for training. Whether they're a Dom or Domme looking to protect their partners, or a submissive looking to understand their own safety.

Financial Control

• Blackmail and bribery (pre-defined agreement)
  You agree in advance to the terms. I hold something you'd prefer stayed private, and you pay to keep it that way. Everything is agreed and consented to before anything begins, so there are no real surprises. Just the thrill of feeling like there are.
• Cash pig
  The pleasure is in the giving. If handing money to someone who demands it is what does it for you, I'm happy to take it. A cash pig derives satisfaction from financial submission itself, not from any service in return.
• Real-time or online shopping
  You cover the bill. Either I take you along and you pay in person, or you fund a session online. The control is mine, the receipts are yours.