Activities and Services Directory

I get asked a lot what particular fetish terms mean, or to what level I provide a given service. For that reason, I've put together this directory of activities that commonly come up.

I offer everything listed on this page unless the description says otherwise. To build a session, let me know what you're interested in from the list below. Or if you need more inspiration, the Ideas page has a menu-style range of options.

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Boundaries

To save you scrolling, here are my firm boundaries in one place. I only offer what I genuinely enjoy, which is exactly why my sessions are good ones. I'm straight, so penetrative and intimate acts with male clients are off the table, toys and worship only. I won't supply, administer or source any substance; that's on you alone. I won't run a session with anyone who's had more than a small drink. Wax play isn't available at my incall for practical reasons, but a dungeon or outcall works fine. Feel free to check in with me about any specific requests you aren't sure if I'm comfortable with.

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The ones I am asked for most

Everything on this page is an activity in its own right, but a handful come up far more than the rest, so here is what each of them actually means when you book it with me.

Spanking: by hand first, then paddles, straps and the tawse for something broader and louder, and canes when you want it to sting. Tell me how hard, and whether marks are welcome. more

Foot fetish and foot worship: one of the most common things I am asked for. Bare feet, socks, trainers or boots, worn in beforehand if you ask, and trampling if you want my full weight rather than just my feet. more

CBT and ballbusting: kicking, squeezing, hitting, stretching, twisting, electrics, nettles and chilli paste, started where you are and kept at your limit. Ballbusting is loud and needs room, so it is not one for an incall. more

Watersports: one of my own kinks as well as one of the most requested. On you, or in you if that is what you are after, and there is a funnel hood mask for forced drinking. With women I am happy to play both ways. more

Fisting: sterile single-use medical gloves and J-lube fisting gel, worked up slowly and never rushed. I give rather than receive. Prep with a suppository or a douche beforehand. more

Forced bi: an introduction to serving a man, which with me means oral servitude, manhandling and throat use. No anal, because I do not have sex with male clients. more

Chastity: a cage for the session, or a longer arrangement with the key handed over. Bring your own device if you have one that fits you properly. Male clients only. more

Humiliation and degradation: talked down to, mocked and put in your place, with no porn-style shouting. Slurs and themes such as raceplay stay off the table unless you ask for them by name. more

Electro: a Duo Flick Electrastim with sticky pads, loops and insertable attachments, plus a handheld prod. Anything from a tingle to excruciating, kept below the waist and never across the chest. more

Sissy training and crossdressing: help getting dressed and taken as far as you want, with as much humiliation in it as you have asked for. Bring what you want to wear, as I own no outfits or makeup, and makeup is not my skillset. Male clients only. more

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Activities

Everything below comes from the very same list of activities you will meet on the booking form, and every description is my own. If it is on the form, it is explained here; if it is explained here, you can ask for it there. Where an activity exists in two directions, the tag beside its name says who is doing what to whom.

Sexual

• Creampie cleanup
  Cleaning up a cum-filled pussy afterwards with your mouth. I do a lot of these sessions with my girlfriends.
• Creampie finish
  Cum inside the pussy without a condom. I do a lot of these sessions with my girlfriends.
• Cuckold Spartan + his partner
  You watch me with my girlfriend, a female friend, or more than one woman. Unlike a threesome, cuckolding involves degradation and voyeurism, so you are there to be left out of it and receive some amount of taunting.
• Cuckold Spartan + your partner
  You watch me with your own partner. Unlike a threesome, cuckolding involves degradation and voyeurism, so you are there to be left out of it and receive some amount of taunting.
• Cum in mouth
  Happy to give. I only receive from women. I am tested regularly, have never had an STI, and intend to keep it that way.
• Cum on body
  Finishing on your body. Tell me beforehand if there is anywhere you would rather I avoided, or aim towards.
• Cum on face
  Finishing on your face. It sits well alongside degradation, but it does not have to.
• Finger play
  Fingering, at whatever pace suits you. Plenty of lube where it's helpful.
• Fisting
  I've helped many people try being fisted for the first time. I have sterile single-use medical gloves and J-lube fisting gel, which is considered by the majority of the kink community to be the best. I give rather than receive.
• Hand on throat (Firm, not choking)
  A firm hand on the throat for the feeling of being held down, without restricting your airway. Not the same thing as choking.
• Hand on throat (gentle)
  A light hand on the throat. This one is about the sense of control rather than any real pressure.
• Kissing
  I kiss women, including deep kissing with tongues. I do not kiss men.
• Nipple play
  Anything from teasing by hand through to clamps. Tell me how much you can take and we will work up to it.
• Oral sex you → Spartan
  You giving me oral. Exactly what it says.
• Oral sex Spartan → you
  Me giving you oral. Exactly what it says.
• Sex
  Full penetrative sex. Offered to female clients.
• Voyeurism (D/s), with kink elements Spartan + his partner
  You watch me and my partner, with kink and power play in it rather than straight sex.
• Voyeurism (sex) Spartan + his partner
  You watch me and my partner have sex. You are there to watch, not to join in.
• Sexual objectification/ free use
  You take a passive role and are used sexually as a toy/plaything for my pleasure at a pace I see fit. You would usually be confined or held still, within limits set in advance. It often pairs with restraint.

All things anal

• Anal creampie finish
  Cum inside anally without a condom. My girlfriends do not offer this.
• Anal fisting
  I use sterile single-use medical gloves and J-lube fisting gel, which is considered by the majority of the kink community to be the best. Prep with a suppository or a douche beforehand.
• Anal sex
  For female clients, gentle for beginners or as intense as you like. I do not give anal sex to men, toys only.
• Rimming you → Spartan
  You rimming me. I love being rimmed and I am happy for men or women to do it.
• Rimming Spartan → you
  Me rimming you. I rim women, not men.
• Anal training (help learning or improving safely)
  With toys. Usually a longer session. The aim is to build up gradually so that you can take more, comfortably, in future. Nothing is rushed. Available to men and women with toys. Can progress to anal sex for women

Other

• Casual/ boyfriend experience/ nothing kinky
  Warm, affectionate, unscripted communication. Closeness and attention rather than kink, with no expectations. The night can go wherever it goes.
• Oily massage you → Spartan
  You massaging me, with oil. I'll provide the oil. If you're hosting, I'll need a shower afterwards, and likewise you'll be able to take one if I'm hosting.
• Oily massage Spartan → you
  Sensual or non-sexual massage on a bed (or on a proper professional table if booked). You set the boundaries in advance.
• Role play
  Acting out a character or a scenario. I will consider any request, though I only take on the ones I can do properly. Remembering a long script or a prolonged, detailed scenario which is far from what I normally offer may not work so well as something closer to what I already offer.

Spartan clothing preference

• Smart casual
  A nice t shirt and smart jeans. Smart, but not formal. The kind of outfit I'd go for a nice meal in.
• Casual
  Casual jeans or sportswear and a t-shirt. Nothing dressed up. The kind of outfit I'd lounge around at home in.
• Sporty
  Sports kit: shorts or joggers, trainers. The kind of outfit I'd go to the gym in.
• Tight clothing
  Something close-fitting, so you can see the shape of me.
• Leather
  Leather gear. I have full biker leathers, jacket and trousers. They are hot to wear though so for the full set, they may only be able to be worn for the beginning of the session
• Latex
  Latex gear. I have a latex top, but no latex trousers or shorts any more.
• Kinkwear, no specific type
  Kinkwear, and I will pick whatever suits the session.
• Nude preferred throughout the scene
  You would rather I was undressed for the whole session.
• Please stay clothed throughout the scene
  You would rather I stayed dressed throughout.
• No preference on clothing
  You do not mind what I wear.
• Yes, but I'll tell you in the extra info box
  You have something particular in mind and will describe it in the extra information box.

Light BDSM and domination

• BDSM complete newbie- please guide me
  You have not done this before and would like me to lead. Tick it and I will plan the session accordingly and keep checking in. You'll be given safe words to use and will get a brief taste of lots of different things to get your exploration started.
• Being restrained (rope, shackles, duct tape etc)
  Restraint with rope, leather cuffs, steel shackles, from light and symbolic through to full immobilisation. Keys and safety shears are always to hand.
• Body worship you → Spartan
  You worshipping my body. Watching and feeling my muscles as I flex.
• Boot/ sock/ trainer worship
  Worshipping my boots, socks or trainers. Let me know in advance if you would like them worn for an extra day beforehand. I may be able to cater for this if you're my first client of the day.
• Consensual non-consent (CNC)
  A negotiated forced dynamic where feeling out of control is the whole point. Every limit, and a safeword, is agreed first, so it only feels non-consensual.
• Foot worship
  Worshipping my feet. It is one of the most common things I am asked for.
• Humiliation/ degradation/ bullying
  Being talked down to, mocked and put in your place. Tell me what stings and what is off limits.
• Instructional/ educational- learn about BDSM gear and safe practice
  A session spent learning: what the gear is, how it is used, and how to do it safely. Useful if you want to try things on someone else afterwards.
• Mummification- Pallet wrap (thick cling film) £
  Being wrapped tightly in pallet wrap, from a limb to head to toe. Restrictive and warm, and safety shears are always to hand.
• Raceplay/ homophobia/ other specifically requested degradation
  Slurs and themes that are off the table unless you ask for them by name. Tell me exactly what you want said and I will stay inside it.
• S&M/ Corporal punishment- light (please don't mark me)
  Impact you will feel at the time but will not be wearing tomorrow. Nothing that marks.
• S&M/ Corporal punishment- medium (some small marks are okay)
  Harder, with small marks and light bruising acceptable.
• Small/ large penis humiliation
  Being teased about your size. It takes an area of anxiety and turns it into something you can enjoy, and it works well alongside cuckold. It does not have to be true, only something you feel.

Heavier BDSM and specific kink requests

• Cock and ball torture (CBT)
  Kicking, squeezing, hitting, stretching, twisting, electrics, nettles, chilli paste. Plenty of ways to make you squirm, and your limits will be tested.
• Face sitting
  Sitting on your face with control over your breathing, either directly or using my face-sitting box. It pairs well with worship.
• Financial domination
  Findom, cash-pig play and pre-agreed blackmail roleplay. For some people the giving itself is the thrill. Everything is negotiated up front.
• Forceful/ physical domination
  Being overpowered physically, from being pushed around a little to a full struggle that you lose.
• S&M/ Corporal punishment- firm (I want a challenge, heavy bruising okay)
  As hard as you can take it, with heavy bruising accepted. Tell me if it needs to stay where clothes will cover it.
• Sensory deprivation
  Removing or dulling one sense so the others sharpen. Taking away sight with a hood or a mask is the usual starting point.
• WAM fetish
  Wet and messy. Custard, beans, flour, cake, foam, treacle and anything else you fancy. You supply the ingredients, and it is an outcall to your home or a hotel only.
• Watersports
  A piss fetish, and one of mine as well as one of the most common. I will piss on you, or in you if that is what you are after.
• Wrestling
  A submission match where you find out how strong I actually am. As sporting or as one-sided as you like.
• Age play
  Roleplay built around a much younger or much older persona. It may apply to you, to me, to your or my partner or to a combination of us.
  
  If you're booking a duo, Harley is very often asked for scenes like this and has the appropriate outfits for all different ranges, so may be the ideal fit.
  
  Let me know what your ideal scenario is. Never any judgment.
• Chastity (male client only)
  Wearing a cage, for the session or on a longer arrangement. Bring your own device if you have one that fits properly. For sanitary reasons (they are a pain to clean properly), a cage is one of the few items I don't provide to clients.
• Crossdressing assistance (male client only)
  Help getting dressed and made up, from a light touch to the full works. Bring anything you particularly want to wear. I don't own outfits or makeup. One thing to preface is that I am not experienced with doing makeup and whilst I can have a go, it's not my skillset.
  
  If you book me as part of a duo, one of my partners would be able to assist with makeup more effectively.
• Kitten/ doggy/ horse roleplay
  Being put in the role of an animal. You lose your human privileges, and the responsibilities that come with them. Female kittens get pets and affection, dogs get games and obedience training, and horses get ridden around.
• Sounding rods
  Sterile rods, used slowly and with plenty of lube.
• Trampling
  Standing and walking on you, in bare feet, trainers or boots, up to my full body weight.

Types of toys or kink implements you like or are curious about

• Fleshlights/ insertable toys for dicks
• Nipple clamps
  Clamps of various weights. My own favourites are Thai nipple sticks, which are just as nasty as traditional clamps but do not leave marks.
• Vaginal dildos
  A selection of body-safe dildos in various sizes.
• Vaginal love eggs/ Kegel balls
  Love eggs and kegel balls of different sizes and weights, worn during a session or set as a task.
• Wand vibrators (great for men and women)
  A mains-powered wand vibrator. Powerful, and it works on anyone.
• Anal dildos
  Anal dildos from beginner sizes upwards. Plenty of lube, and no rushing.
• Anal finger play (Female clients only)
  Anal fingering, at your pace.
• Anal hook
  A steel anal hook, usually tied off to hold it in position. More about posture and control than pain.
• Anal proctoscope
  A proctoscope, for a clinical look inside. It fits naturally with medical play.
• Bats and clubs
• Belts
  A leather belt. Simple, loud, and it stings.
• Blindfolds
  Taking your sight away, which sharpens everything else.
• Breath control (airway control, not choking)
  Controlling your breathing without pressure on the throat. Slower and more deliberate than choking.
• Cable ties
  Cheap, tight and unforgiving restraint. Cutters always to hand.
• Canes
  Canes of different weights, from thin and stingy to heavy and thuddy. They do mark.
• Chilli paste (Extreme sensory)
  Chilli paste on the skin or elsewhere. It builds, it lasts, and it cannot be switched off quickly, so think about it before you tick it. This is a lot hotter than deep heat spray
• Choking- hand on throat
  A hand round the throat with real pressure behind it. We agree signals first, since you may not be able to speak.
• Choking- rear naked choke
  A proper rear naked choke, applied from behind. I know how to do this safely and I let go the moment I need to.
• Collars
  A collar, for the feel of it and to put you in your place
• Crops
  Riding crops. Sharp, precise and easy to place exactly.
• Cuffs
  Leather or steel cuffs, wrists or ankles. Keys always to hand. Shackles for a more heavy duty option although putting them on and taking them off takes a bit longer.
• Deep heat (sensory)
  Deep heat cream or spray, for a slow spreading burn. Milder than chilli paste, but still gives a nice burning sensation.
• Electrostimulation/ electro sex toys
  My main unit is a Electrastim flux. Attachments for that are;
  sticky pads, cock loops, clamps (For labia, not nipples), penis sleeve stroker, wartenberg wheel, flexible tubing to wrap around penis, vaginal dildos, anal plug and an attachment which connects to me and allows me to use my own body as the conductor, so it flows through my fingertips, penis etc.
  I also have another much more powerful unit which works with kegal balls.
  
  . Anything from a tingle to excruciating
• Face sitting box £
  A proper face-sitting box, so I can sit for as long as I like and you stay exactly where you are.
• Flail (very dense leather flogger)
  A very dense leather flail. Much heavier than an ordinary flogger, and it lands like a punch.
• Floggers
  Floggers ranging from soft and thuddy to sharp and stingy, depending on the tails.
• Fucking machine £
  My F-Machine Pro 4, a professional variable-speed machine with a full range of dildos. Available within a session or for private hire.
• Fucksaw (handheld)
  A handheld fucking machine. Quicker to set up than the big one, and easier to aim. Much louder!
• Full body pillory restraint (spreader bar system) £
  A frame that holds the neck, wrists and ankles at once, with a spreader bar keeping your legs apart. Standing restraint that leaves you completely open and going nowhere.
• Gags
  Ball gags, bit gags and others. We agree hand signals first, since you will not be able to speak.
• Mask (Animal, Pig or dog)
  An animal mask, usually alongside pet play or dehumanisation. I have a rubber pig mask and a puppy play mask.
• Mask (Blindfold)
  A blindfold mask that seals light out completely.
• Mask (Funnel hood mask (for watersports))
  A hood with a funnel built into it, for watersports.
• Mask (Gas mask)
  A gas mask, for restricted breathing, the sound it makes and the aesthetic. It can also be a fun way to inhale poppers.
• Mask (balaclava etc) Spartan wears it
  Me in a mask or balaclava rather than you. Some people find the anonymity does most of the work.
• Massage table £
  A proper padded professional table, brought along for massage or for anything that works better with you lying flat.
• Medical play fetish (including sharps)
  Clinical roleplay with proper equipment. Sharps are available, and anything that goes near you is sterile and single use.
• Milking machine £
  A genuine six-pump SeriousKit milking machine. Available hands-on or for private solo hire.
  Attachments are:
  - A SPT (cock sleeve milker, suitable for men)
  - Breast pump (suitable for everyone)
• 5 litre J-lube tank loop £
  A five litre tank of J-lube on a pump loop. It's not essential to use this and not recommended on a shorter booking. But for bookings where you'd like to go for over an hour (with breaks), it is recommended. It'll feel wetter and won't get so hot, and will prevent us having to disassemble it to add lube to the SPT every now and again, which can kill the zone on a longer session.
• Mouth spreader (Jennings gag)
  A Jennings gag, which holds your mouth open rather than filling it.
• Nettles (sensory) - you will have to bring
  Fresh nettles used on the skin. You will need to bring them with you on the day, I won't have time to pick them myself. Nettles lose most of their sting after a day and are much stronger within the first few hours of being picked. So I recommend picking them a few hours before and bringing them in a ziplock bag.
• Paddles
  Leather, wood and rubber paddles. Broad, loud and thuddy.
• Rope/ chains
  Rope or chain restraint, from a simple tie to something you are not getting out of. Safety shears always to hand.
• Spanking bench £
  A padded bench that puts you in position over it and holds you there, for impact work across the backside and thighs.
• Speculum (vaginal)
  Examination with a speculum, either as part of medical play or on its own.
• Straitjacket (Size Small)
  A straightjacket, but only in a small. Worth checking it will fit you before you tick it.
• Tawse/ straps
  A tawse or a heavy strap. Broad, thuddy and very loud.
• Tazapper (electro prod)
  A handheld electro prod. Sharp, sudden and startling rather than sustained.
• Wartenberg wheel
  A spiked wheel run across the skin. It feels much like a blade being drawn along you, without breaking the skin. Mine is electro compatible. So it can be used with or without an electric current (It feels sharper with one).
• Wax and candles - I supply the candles £
  Hot wax dripped onto the skin. I use low-temperature candles made for play and I bring them, so there is nothing for you to buy.
• Poppers - I supply them £
  Available during the session if you want them. I can supply them, so no need to bring your own, but please let me know in advance. You are also welcome to bring yours.
• Whips and other sting-type pain implements
  Sting rather than thud: sharper and lighter, and more likely to break skin than to bruise. Whether skin gets broken is entirely your call, and I check limits first.

A different kind of booking

• Coffee and a chat
• Dinner out
• An event
• A non-sexual companion for an event or holiday
• Machine hire (without you present)

Toys and implements - Sex toys

• Male specific sex toys such as fleshlights
  Fleshlights and egg toys toys made for dicks. Body-safe and cleaned between clients. You can bring your own sleeve if you would prefer. Condoms must be used with fleshlights
• Tentacles/ dog/ horse/ monster dildos
  Fantasy dildos in a range of shapes and sizes.

Toys and implements - Kink

• Clubs and other heavy (thud) type implements
  Heavy thud rather than sting. A deep, dull impact you feel in the muscle.

Duo & Group

• MF duo
  Me and one of my female partners. Every booking involves me: my partners cannot be booked without me through this site, though you can book them directly through their own AdultWork pages, linked from the duo partners page.
• MFF trio
  Me and both of my female partners.
• MM duo
  Hire two escorts- Meet Spartan as a duo alongside another male with all attention on you
• MMF trio
  Hire three escorts- Meet Spartan as a trio alongside another male and also one of Spartan's female partners

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Substances and Chems

• What Are Chems?

  Chems is the commonly used term for chemicals and drugs, mainly within the gay and BDSM communities. The short answer to how I approach clients who want to use substances on a session is: as long as you're a rational adult, you can do what you like. I have no moral issue with it. That said, some substances create real complications during play. Poppers carry very little risk in most cases. Others, like GBL, can cause severe reactions and the indirect risks need to be taken seriously. If you want to take anything on a session other than poppers or alcohol, tell me beforehand. For anything not listed here it depends on the substance, but as a general rule, if it can be used safely it should be fine.

  Three things I ask:

  1. Tell me in advance what you're planning to take.
  2. Don't take unnecessary risks.
  3. Don't ask me to supply you with anything. I'm not a dealer and I won't supply or administer anything. If you take something, that's entirely on you.
• Alcohol
  I won't do a BDSM session with anyone who has had more than a small amount of alcohol, due to the anaesthetic effect and the difficulty of reading body language accurately. As a general rule, if I wouldn't get in a car with you driving, I won't session with you. I don't drink on sessions myself, and for my own safety I won't accept any drink from a client unless it's ordered directly from a bar.
• GBL
  If you're planning to take only a sensible amount and not combining it with anything else, especially alcohol, this is generally fine as long as you tell me in advance. If you take GBL on a session, I won't do any bondage play with you and will stop any heavy BDSM once the effects start to take hold, due to the anaesthetic effect. I won't partake myself. This drug carries real risk, and if I feel you're in danger at any point, I will call an ambulance. You can read more about GBL and its risks on Talk to FRANK.
• Poppers
  Very low risk. You're welcome to take these on a session. If you have any health conditions that might be affected by vasodilation, such as high blood pressure or an irregular heartbeat, please let me know. In that case I'd recommend not taking them, as the risk increases significantly. I won't partake myself. You can read more about poppers on Talk to FRANK.

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Useful resources & further reading

Independent resources if you'd like to read more. On each line the first link explains what something is, and the second covers safety or deeper reading. These are third-party, informational sites (not explicit, and not endorsements), and none replace a proper conversation with me about your own situation.

Consent, safety & wellbeing

Consent, safewords & the traffic-light system: what it is · further reading

Aftercare & sub-drop: what it is · managing sub-drop

Sexual health & STI testing: NHS overview · getting tested (Brook)

Impact, sensation & S&M

Impact play: what it is · safety

Caning / corporal punishment: what it is · safety

Spanking: what it is · safety

Cock & ball torture (CBT): what it is · safety

Nipple play & clamps: what it is · safety

Wax / temperature play: what it is · safety

Trampling: what it is · safety

Breath, bondage, sensory & edge play

Breath play / erotic asphyxiation: what it is · safety

Bondage & rope restraint: what it is · nerve safety

Mummification: what it is · safety

Sensory deprivation: what it is · further reading

Electro play / e-stim: what it is · safety (never across the chest)

Knife play / edge play: what it is · safety

Needle play: what it is · safety

Wartenberg wheel / pinwheel: what it is · safe use

Humiliation & power exchange

Cuckolding: what it is · further reading

Small penis humiliation (SPH): what it is · further reading

Verbal humiliation / degradation: what it is · further reading

Objectification / pet play: what it is · exploring it safely

Forced bi: what it is · further reading

Sissification / forced feminisation: what it is · further reading

Foot fetish: what it is · further reading

Financial domination (findom): what it is · scam awareness

Sex acts & intimacy

Girlfriend Experience (GFE): what it is · activities & risk (NHS)

Deep French kissing (DFK): what it is · health note

Creampie: what it is · STI & risk (NHS)

Anal play & training: what it is · safe training

Fisting: what it is · harm reduction (Birmingham LGBT)

Rimming: what it is · hygiene & risk (Brook)

Pegging / strap-on: what it is · beginner safety

Threesomes & group sex: what it is · safer group sex

Watersports: what it is · health note

Food play / wet and messy (WAM): what it is · hygiene note

Machines

Fucking machines: what it is · toy safety

Milking machines / prostate: what it is · technique & safety

Substances

Poppers: what they are · risks (Talk to FRANK)

Chemsex & GBL/GHB: what it is · harm reduction (THT) · GBL/GHB (FRANK)