Services Directory

I get asked a lot what particular fetish terms mean, or to what level I provide a given service. For that reason, I've put together this directory of activities that commonly come up.

I offer everything listed on this page unless the description says otherwise. To build a session, let me know what you're interested in from the list below. Or if you need more inspiration, the Ideas page has a menu-style range of options.

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Domination and Kink

Humiliation Activities

• Cuckold
  Men being cuckolded will be made to watch another man have sex with and pleasure their girlfriend, wife, a female friend, or more than one woman. Cuckolding, unlike a threesome, involves degradation and voyeurism. If you don't have a partner, you can watch me with mine instead. The ultimate cuckold experience is eating a bull's cum from a pussy.
• Doggy Play and Dehumanisation
  Being forced into the role of an animal or object, such as a chair or toilet. You lose your rights to human privileges and are freed from the responsibilities they bring.
• Food Play and Sploshing
  This kind of session involves me throwing all sorts of food and substances onto you: custard, beans, flour, cake, shaving foam, treacle and just about anything else. You would need to supply the ingredients, and this is offered as an outcall to your home or hotel only.
• Foot Fetish
  Podophilia (arousal from feet) is one of the most common fetishes around. It's often thought of as a Dom/sub activity, but it can be vanilla too. I take a lot of sessions receiving foot worship and, while it isn't a fetish I personally share, people do seem to like mine.
• Forced Play
  Being made to engage in an activity you don't enjoy, whether genuinely or as an enacted scenario, for the amusement of others. Bi play, hetero play, watersports and so on.
• Physical Humiliation
  Being overpowered physically, whether that's being pushed around a little or a full wrestling match to submission.
• Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)
  Being teased about having a small dick is common among men who are self-conscious about their size. It gives control over an area of anxiety and turns a negative feeling into a positive one. Being told plainly how you compare can be liberating, in a humiliating kind of way. Works well alongside cuckold. Even if your dick isn't small, this can still work as long as you have some degree of anxiety about it.
• Verbal
  Do you want to be told what a pathetic worm you are? Maybe some specific slurs relating to race, gender or sexuality? Verbal abuse during a session is a major turn-on for a lot of people. I'm not the loudest verbaliser in the dom scene and I don't do American porn-style shouting or constant commentary throughout, as that doesn't do much for me. But you'll listen when spoken to, and you'll know who's in charge.
• Watersports
  This is a piss fetish and, aside from being one of the most common male fetishes, it's one of mine. I will piss on or into the mouth of a male client, and with female clients I'm happy to play in both directions.
• Wet and Messy (WAM)
  Water bombs, sludge, mud and anything wet and messy. See the Sploshing entry above.

Sadism and Masochism (S&M) Activities

• Asphyxia, Choking and Breath Play
  Any act involving restricting or controlling breathing. I'm comfortable and experienced with this in a variety of ways.
• Cock and Ball Torture (CBT)
  Kicking, squeezing, hitting, electrocuting, stretching, nettles, chilli paste... I have plenty of ways to make you squirm.
• Corporal Punishment and Discipline
  Canes, paddles, impact play and so on.
• Mummification
  Latex is a popular choice for mummification fantasies. I can do this at the dungeon, combining a latex body sack with a winch. Another popular option is being wrapped head to toe (with nose holes) in cling film or duct tape. As a sadist, I can't recommend duct tape enough.
• Nipple Torture
  Usually done by hand or with clamps. My personal favourite is Thai nipple sticks. They're just as nasty as traditional clamps, don't leave marks, and can be twisted, twiddled or tied to other things in all sorts of creative ways.
• Sensory Deprivation
  Sensory deprivation involves removing or significantly reducing one or more senses to increase focus on the others. Taking away sight with a mask, for example, heightens your awareness of sound. Take away both and your sense of touch becomes hyperacute. Removing sensory input is inherently stressful, and the anxiety it produces can significantly intensify the effect of submission. I have various pieces of equipment for this.
• Slapping
  Anything from spanking to hard facial slapping.
• Spitting
  On the body or in the mouth.
• Trampling
  With bare feet, trainers or boots, up to full body weight.
• Wax and Candles

  This uses special candles designed to melt and drip onto skin. You get a brief, sharp burning sensation with each drop, but the marks are minor and temporary. Bear in mind that different candles burn at different temperatures, and I'd ask you to bring your own candles from a sex shop or online.

  I don't do wax play at incall, as the space is carpeted and impossible to clean afterwards. I'm happy to do it in a dungeon that offers the facility, or on an outcall. If you want an interesting variation, look into UV candles. I have a blacklight torch that creates some striking visuals, which can also make for great photos if you'd like a memento.

Medical Play Activities

• Cutting and Scarification
  Cutting can be done with various tools, most commonly knives or finger claws. I favour finger claws. Light cutting produces a gentle scratch. Done with a little more pressure, intentional scarification is possible. Whatever the intention, scarring is always a risk with any cutting, and it depends as much on the subject's skin type and resilience as on the skill of the person doing it. I have experience with cutting, but I'd only offer this to a client I've known for a significant amount of time.
• Needle Play
  Needle play involves puncturing the skin with medical needles. It's a very invasive style of play, but many people find it deeply therapeutic. Medical gloves are worn throughout.
• Wartenberg Wheel
  The Wartenberg wheel produces a sensation similar to a knife being drawn across the skin. Used in a dungeon's medical room, it can make for a very convincing dissection scene, without any actual cuts. Used firmly it can leave faint puncture marks; used gently it leaves no marks at all.

Wrestling

• Chokeholds
  See YouTube for examples.
• Sleeperholds
  See YouTube for examples.
• Full Body Contact (Submission)
  One-on-one wrestling until one person submits. I have gym matting for safety. I'm happy to wrestle clothed or nude. I'm very light at 70kg but strong. I have some BJJ experience, though mainly a natural feel for it. I can comfortably bring down untrained wrestlers who outweigh me by 20kg.

Slave Training

• Housework Slavery
  Degradation and servitude through doing household chores for a master. I no longer offer this at my own home, with the exception of one long-term slave who has been serving my cleaning needs for several years. I do have other properties where I can put you to use.
• Sissification and Crossdressing
  Crossdressing is when a man enjoys dressing in a feminine way. Sissification is when someone is made to do so, forced into a feminine role.

Implements and Toys

• Dildos
  I have a selection of dildos in various sizes.
• Electro
  I have a variety of electroplay toys. My main unit is a Duo Flick Electrastim (electric circuit box) with sticky pads, butt plugs, a 7-inch dildo, and loops that can attach to fingers, toes, cock or balls. I also have a TaZapper, a cattle prod-style toy, and a Violet Wand.
• Impact
  Impact toys deliver heavy, thudding force and are more likely to bruise than to break the skin. Examples include paddles, thick canes and heavy leather floggers.
• Masks
  • Full-face leather hood
  • Full-face fabric hood
  • Latex gas mask-style watersports hood (Fetters)
  • Sensory deprivation hood
• Plugs
  I have a large collection of butt plugs: metal, trillium locking (pear of anguish), silicone, glass and remote control.
• Sting
  Sting implements are the opposite of impact toys: sharper, lighter, and more likely to break skin than to bruise. Whether or not you want me to break skin is entirely up to you; I'll check your limits before the session. Examples include whips, thin canes, sharp-tailed floggers and crops.
• Other
  Have a specific request not listed here? Chances are I can help. Just ask.

Physical Appreciation and Muscle Fetish

• Worship
  You can watch and feel my muscles as I flex, worship my feet and so on.
• Wrestling
  You can experience my strength first-hand in a submission match. See the Wrestling section above.

Substances and Chems

• What Are Chems?

  Chems is the commonly used term for chemicals and drugs, mainly within the gay and BDSM communities. The short answer to how I approach clients who want to use substances on a session is: as long as you're a rational adult, you can do what you like. I have no moral issue with it. That said, some substances create real complications during play. Poppers carry very little risk in most cases. Others, like GBL, can cause severe reactions and the indirect risks need to be taken seriously. If you want to take anything on a session other than poppers or alcohol, tell me beforehand.

  Three things I ask:

  1. Tell me in advance what you're planning to take.
  2. Don't take unnecessary risks.
  3. Don't ask me to supply you with anything. I'm not a dealer and I won't supply or administer anything. If you take something, that's entirely on you.
• Alcohol
  I won't do a BDSM session with anyone who has had more than a small amount of alcohol, due to the anaesthetic effect and the difficulty of reading body language accurately. As a general rule, if I wouldn't get in a car with you driving, I won't session with you. I don't drink on sessions myself, and for my own safety I won't accept any drink from a client unless it's ordered directly from a bar.
• GBL
  If you're planning to take only a sensible amount and not combining it with anything else, especially alcohol, this is generally fine as long as you tell me in advance. If you take GBL on a session, I won't do any bondage play with you and will stop any heavy BDSM once the effects start to take hold, due to the anaesthetic effect. I won't partake myself. This drug carries real risk, and if I feel you're in danger at any point, I will call an ambulance.
• Poppers
  Very low risk. You're welcome to take these on a session. If you have any health conditions that might be affected by vasodilation, such as high blood pressure or an irregular heartbeat, please let me know. In that case I'd recommend not taking them, as the risk increases significantly. I won't partake myself.
• Other
  It depends on the substance. As a general rule, if it can be used safely, it should be fine.

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Escort and Vanilla

Sex Acts

• Anal Sex
  For female clients, absolutely. Gentle for beginners and as intense as you like for the more experienced. I don't give anal sex to men; toys only. Sex requires the giver to be aroused, and being straight, that simply doesn't work for me with men. It's my most common request, and if I could enjoy it I'd be a very rich man, but it's not something I can offer. Please don't ask.
• Anal Training
  Usually a longer session. The goal is to gradually increase the capacity of the anus, allowing you to take larger toys or dicks more comfortably in future, and to learn how to relax properly. Using fingers, dilators and dildos, we work progressively through your limits. Most clients who enjoy anal training like to use poppers, which I'm fine with. A lot can be achieved in a single lengthy session, but effective training requires regular work, so you'll want to see me regularly and use plugs and dilators between sessions if you have ambitious goals.
• Cum in Mouth (CIM)
  Happy to give. I receive only from women. I'm regularly tested and have never had an STI, and I'd like to keep that record intact.
• Fisting
  I use sterile medical gloves. As they're single use, I ask clients who want to be fisted to bring their own fisting gel. It's strongly recommended over regular lube for this. I've found the best results combining Crisco and J-Lube. I enjoy fisting; as you'd expect, I give rather than receive. Most clients who enjoy fisting like to use poppers, which is absolutely fine.
• Foot Fetish
  Can involve foot sniffing, licking, sucking, sock sniffing, boot worship and so on. See the Foot Fetish entry in the domination section above.
• Forced Bi
  An introduction to serving a man sexually, with him putting you in your place. With me, this is oral servitude only, no anal. Expect manhandling, throat fucking and rimming.
• Hand Relief
  Also known as a wank. I don't give this to other guys, but I'm comfortable with male clients who want to touch, wank or give oral to me.
• Kissing and DFK
  I kiss women, including DFK (with tongues). I don't kiss men.
• Objectification
  The subject plays a passive role and is generally confined or immobile. In a sexual booking, this usually means being used as a sex toy, within limits you set out before the session and within my own.
• Oral Sex
  Exactly what it says.
• Rimming
  I love being rimmed and I'm very happy for men or women to do so. I also enjoy rimming women. I don't rim men.
• Roleplay
  Acting out a character or scenario. I'll consider any roleplay request, though I rarely accept them as they usually don't interest me. I only do sessions I actually enjoy.
• Vaginal Sex
  I'm happy to provide this.

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Duo and Group Meets

• Creampie
  A creampie is a cum-filled pussy. Many people enjoy cleaning one up. I do a lot of creampie cleanup sessions with my girlfriend.
• Cuckold
  You'll be made to watch me have sex with and pleasure my girlfriend, a female friend, or more than one woman, so you know exactly what a real man looks like in action.
• Live Sex Shows
  Watch me with one or more women, live. You sit by the bed with a good view. No pressure to join in; you can simply relax and enjoy the show.
• MMF
  You, me and one other person. Whether you're a single looking for a couple or a couple looking for a single.
• MMFF+
  I work with multiple women and, with enough notice, can arrange trios or larger group meets.

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